342. How To Be Awesome At Building an Unshakeable Self-Story

This podcast episode is about being delusional in the healthiest way possible I really think the worst advice I’ve ever been given is be realistic Because it’s such a dream killer and creates this cycle of limiting beliefs in your mind I just think that too often we put ourselves in a box without realizing it and the moment we break out of that box and realize just how capable we are- we can really accomplish anything we want. if we just keep going, just keep getting back up just never stop I believe so much in thoughts become things and the story you tell yourself becomes the life you live And whatever the next level is that you’re trying to reach in your life… you can design it in your head and get so clear on it that you believe it before it’s actually happened and then you tell yourself this is happening time just hasn’t caught up yet. It’s like next level manifesting and the law of attraction and realizing the power that we get back when we remove limiting beliefs, and that urge to be realistic. So let’s do a podcast on being delusional in the healthiest way possible because that’s the only way to achieve things that are extraordinary and keep growing and evolving and progressing and becoming better and stronger every year. 

This is the key to all of this…

“This is happening. Time just hasn’t caught up yet.”

Your self-story is the collection of beliefs you hold about who you are, what you deserve, and what’s possible for you. Most people are living out a story they never consciously chose, built from past experiences, other people’s opinions, and old limitations. When you change your self-story, you change what you notice, what you attempt, and what you allow in your life.

• Why “being realistic” often keeps people stuck
So much advice is rooted in other people’s fear, history, and unfulfilled dreams. “Be realistic” can quietly become a dream killer. Extraordinary lives are built by people willing to believe before there is proof, act before there is permission, and stay consistent before results show up.

• Healthy delusion, manifesting, and identity-based growth
There is a direct connection between belief, identity, and behavior. Thoughts become things when they are paired with clarity, emotion, and consistent action. Many of today’s top mindset and habit leaders point back to the same truth: your identity drives your behavior, and your behavior reinforces your identity.

• Why so many people quit right before the breakthrough
The space between vision and results is where most self-stories collapse. The quiet middle is where doubt grows, momentum feels slow, and people often walk away, sometimes just days or weeks before a major shift. Learning to stay when nothing is happening yet is one of the most powerful skills you can build.

• How to build an unshakeable self-story
Building a new internal identity starts with deciding who you are becoming on purpose. It grows through tiny daily actions that create real proof. It is protected by being intentional about what you listen to, who you allow influence you, and how you speak to yourself. It is strengthened every time you release a limiting belief before it rewrites your future.

• Morning and evening routines that reinforce who you’re becoming
Morning practices help you step into the person you’re becoming before the world sets the tone for your day. Evening practices help you gather proof, reframe challenges, and deepen self-trust. Together, they install and reinforce your self-story daily.

• Journaling as identity work
Journaling is not just reflection, it is direction. Writing clarifies belief, trains focus, and turns vague desire into a lived identity. The way you write about your life becomes the way you experience your life.

• The power of not stopping
An unshakeable self-story is not built through intensity. It is built through continuation. Momentum comes from returning, recommitting, and refusing to abandon the version of you you are becoming. If you don’t quit, you arrive.

• Final thought
Your life will always move in the direction of the story you tell yourself. You don’t need proof to start. You don’t need permission to change it. And you don’t need approval to live it. Build a self-story so strong that it pulls your actions forward, then protect it, practice it, and become it.